Being in relationship with each other doesn’t mean that both person don’t have to do anything for rest of their life.
All we know that we are always working on maintaining the relationship with each other for happy living and peaceful life.
Now the question is that why we have to take our relationship to the next best level. Is it not possible that same relationship we can maintain throughout our life without any efforts?
The answer to this question is very simple “NO”. Because many times ups and downs in our life are coming so to balance the life we always have to struggle hard to maintain our relationship. And also if we maintain same flow of relation Everytime without any thrilled then life will be meaningless and monotonous which eventually getting in to “Bored Relationship” not in “Loving Relationship”.
When you first time get into relationship with each other that time always very exciting and full of energy but as time getting passed and if no variation in life is there then one of them fed up and try to get the love from other ways which may be wrong.
Initial time of relationship always couple in intimate love with each other and they are only thinking for each other and also thinking that no one in the world will be separating both apart.
Now another question is that how we can take our relationship to the next level and what are the ways to do it?
I have also published article on “How to prevent Relationship from Divorce” you can find here in same website.
There are 7 ways to take relationship to the next level.
1. Everyday fall in love with each other.
Someone may be surprised by seeing this title.. !! But yes if you want next level then you always be in love with each other. Caring and sharing the things with each other is the way to be loved. Always saying “I Love You” is not required to fall in love with your partner because “Many things not needs Words but only eyes to speak”.
If both the partners are working then at evening you must have to take dinner together and talk what you have done all the day even though you are tired. This makes some difference in routine because everyday some new things happening in everyone’s life.
2. Trust your partner
Trust is the key of successful relationship. In starting of relationship you may be doubting on your partner but when your relationship comes to healthy stage then naturally you trust your partner and you will move towards long lasting relation.
If your partner is sharing some confidential information to you by asking not to tell to anybody then you don’t have to tell anyone even to your best friend, then only your partner next time trust on you.
3. Take responsibility
In relationship it is important to take responsibility of wrong thing you did and accept with apology.
If one of the partner did something wrong and if he/she apologize then forgive him/her and discuss with each other that what went wrong ? So that in future same mistake you will avoid.
Don’t blame any one partner because at the end you both are living together and jointly solve the problem.
4. Give privacy
Privacy is the thing which everybody wants in their life. You have to give space to your partner because he/she don’t have to feel totally depended upon you.
Privacy doesn’t means cheating with partner because your partner gives you space means he/she is trusting you and a person don’t have to break the trust.
5. Understand the limitations of partner
No one is perfect. Every man and woman have some physical or mental limitations. Some person’s mind is very powerful then their partner and other is weak so we don’t have to blame the partner about their limitations.
Accept the limitations of your partner and try to improve it by giving moral support and boosting his confidence. Never waste time to count his/her limitations instead utilize that time by making him/her better person.
If he/she needs any classes (Like spoken English, personality development etc.) then spend some money and time for that so to improve their living standard.
6. Forget EGO.
Ego is the prime factor of making your relationship weak. It is biggest enemy of breaking relationship. You can satisfy your ego but with ego you can’t satisfy your partner.
People having ego of their Position in society, power , money, relations with influencing people, body etc. but when you are with your partner then you have to forget everything. If you have to be good husband then you have to forget everything when you step out from the work place. Forget everything other then your partner when you are with them.
7. Be together in bad time
Everyone wants happiness in his life and don’t want and bad time but the reality is that in everyone’s life always bad time come for short or long period and we all have to accept and try to overcome with our courage and wisdom.
If your partner is in bad time for example both persons are working and out of them one loose their job then he lost his mental support and at that time he/she needs emotional as well as mental support so it is his/her partners duty to stand with him/her and lift to their original place by doing hard work for him/her.
There are so many other ways also to make your relationship to the next level but these are prime ways to have successful relation.
I wish everyone for their healthy relationship and long lasting bonding with their partner.