Now a days more and more peoples are getting educated, the level of education is getting better and better but sadly I am saying that morality of literate as well as illiterate peoples are decreasing day by day.
Some narrow minded/uneducated peoples are looking girls as a enjoyment material, weak, fool person but they don’t know now world is changing and girls are more powerful. This type of men we can find everywhere like outside gate of college, at tea stall, at roadside, near garden etc. and they are judging women’s character by their cloths and the way she looks.
In my life I have heard and read in newspapers so many bad news of sexual harassment of girls in public places during quite hours in day time or in night time.
I am not saying girls are weak and they don’t know how to take care herself. Now a days girls are stronger than men but in some situations girls/women find herself helpless so I write this article to get awareness among them and I wish it will be beneficial for them.
I advise especially girls/women to please see below mentioned options you follow to avoid such situations.
- Always list down emergency phone numbers in your phone and in diary for your reference before going out from home alone.
- If you are booking a cab online and going in cab alone with male driver then now a days cab companies are giving facility to have driver mobile number, name in application. So share immediately with your parents/brother sisters so they also know very well.
- Never meet a boy/men in less crowded place/quite place even for office work alone.
- If you are going out in public transport or private group vehicle and for relaxation if you are listening the music then use only one earbuds so that you can hear what is going on around you and be aware about your surroundings.
“Learn to say NO to anyone including your boss at job if you feel uncomfortable the way he behave.”
- Now in every company strict sexual harassment policy is there and it is applying to any level of person in company so whenever you feel uncomfortable then directly report to concern department strongly without fear and if they are denying then do police complain.
- I strongly recommend you to scream very loudly and ask for help from the surrounding people, this may result in good peoples will be gathering around you and they will catch him and handover to police.
- Bite on his hand and push him hard by both hands and with legs also.
- If you found something on ground like stick or your purse then if possible, take it with your second hand and hit hard on his hand and body.
- Always carry pepper spray with you and when you feel that the person will do anything wrong with you, before it spray on his eyes and ask for help with surrounding people or call directly to police.
- “Never trust on unknown men”.
- If he by chance pulls you in car then quickly see inside car that something would be there which you grab with one hand and hit hard to that man.
- Be bold, be tough and don’t be scared if someone wants to misbehave with you. Don’t think that you are alone, so when you feel something odd then speak at loud noise in front of those people and surely they will run away.
- It is noticed often that in so many cases the person is knowing girl very well who is involving in harassment of girl because they are either neighbor/office colleagues/friends/Facebook friends/relatives etc. and they are knowing you very well so it is easy for them to build trust level for you and they will easily trap you to satisfy their lust so don’t blindly trust them.
- Even don’t trust your office colleagues to meet in private places like garden or in outskirts for business or job related work because you don’t know how he think and react when you are alone.
- Always tell your parents and your brother/sisters about place where you are going in advance, it will not restrict your privacy but you find yourself confident enough during emergency.
- Share your location with your family members continuously.
I am sure that if you take all above precautions then definitely you will be out from trouble and in future also you will not be in danger.
Stay safe and enjoy life. Wishing you and your family very happy and wonderful life ahead.
If you have more other doubts then you will be free to ask me as a comment below this article.